Friday, June 19, 2009

Advice to Win Back Your Love - Don't Hate Yourself For Missing This By Nix Stokes

It's easier to watch a breakup through someone else's eyes. Pat your friend on the shoulder and tell them it's going to be okay, and they're better off now. But then, it happens to you and the next thing you know you're sitting on the couch with a carton of ice cream in one hand, and the remote in the other. You're sitting there like a poor sap, crying your eyes out convincing yourself that there is no way to win back your love.
Well, what if it didn't have to be this way? There is a method to the madness, a way to get your love back, and you'll no longer be an emotional disaster.
First off, hide your cell phone and stay away from your computer. Professing your never ending love to your ex is only going to drive them further away. Yes I know, it sounds like terrible advice. Of course you want to tell them exactly how you feel every five minutes, why won't this bring them back?
It's because they haven't had a chance to miss you yet.
Do yourself a favor and suck it up for about ten minutes, call up a mutual friend (preferably one that will go blabbing to your ex) and tell them that you think it's a good idea you split up. The time apart is going to help you discover more about yourself and help you learn to survive on your own, without your ex.
When your ex hears this it's going to be a major slap in the face. Here they were, living in glory at you're suffering at home. Thinking of all the ways you're going to come running back to them, and all of a sudden they hear that you're doing what! You're doing just fine without them, you didn't collapse and die! The wheels are set into motion now, and your ex is going to start thinking about you again and this is how you win back your love!
You see, the way to get your ex back isn't by stalking them into oblivion, you have to convince yourself (and those around you) that you're just fine. Human nature isn't going to allow your ex to feel good about this, even if it's just subconsciously at first.
Eventually they're going to make contact, so keep it simple. Talk like friends, the way you did when you first got together. Bringing back those old fond memories is going to get things started again. It just takes a little bit of time and patience on your part to win back your love.

No one can replace you in my heart, and if anybody wants to replace it, tha't the time I will stop my heart beating. ( message from Love Messages)

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