Thursday, March 11, 2010

Be Romantic! Simple Ways to Make Any Girl Feel Special and Loved

Being romantic is something a lot of guys struggle with and every woman longs for in a relationship. It doesn't make you any less of a man and really shows your loved one that you care. Don't wait for Valentine's Day to come around, there are simple, practical things you can do to put a smile on his/ her face.
Starting with the classics...
COMPLIMENTS - The most simple and effective of all, pay your loved one a compliment. You know how much they mean to you - so tell them! Tell them how good they look, how they make you feel, how special they are. Follow it up with a hug or a kiss. Do this at least once every day, no excuses!
LOVE NOTES - I'm sure as a child or teenager you have written or received some kind of love letter. Remember how great that felt being told that someone likes you. Anyone can write and email or text, but a hand written note is much more personal. Write your loved one a note just to say hello or to say how much you love them. Its not what you say, its the fact that you made the effort to say it. Use anything you can find, a scrap of paper, a post-it note or the back of a piece of mail. Leave them in unexpected places for your loved one to find. Under their pillow, in their purse or wallet or stuck to the steering wheel of their car. You can always just post it to them. Always draw a heart somewhere on the envelope, this adds to the excitement of the letter.
A MIX CD - We all have access to computers and most of us have moved towards buying mp3's. We can still use this to our advantage. Just like before, putting in a little effort will really score browny points with your loved one. Create a CD of their favourite songs, memorable songs you have shared together, or simply songs that remind you of each other. This will most probably will be listened to when you are apart and is a great way to spark those warm feelings inside.
FOOD/ DRINK - The way to a woman's (and man's) heart is their stomach. A cliché thats true! Candy is a cheap way of putting a smile on someones face. Buy your loved one their favourite candy bar. Tell them you got them a little treat for being so lovely, or for working so hard, or even because you knew it was their favourite. Another simple gesture which is very effective. Just knowing someones favourite food or drink makes them feel like you care. No need to cook an expensive meal or take them out to an expensive restaurant. It really is the little things that make a big difference.
CHORES - Do something you really don't want to do - and don't wait to be asked. Random acts of kindness are really appreciated. Tidy up, clean the kitchen, take out the trash. It sounds obvious but taking control and being assertive is a very attractive quality in a partner.
CARDS - A personalised card is another cheap and fun gift for your loved one. You may not be the most creative person in the world, but the worse you are at drawing and crafting the more it will be appreciated. Don't spend money on expensive birthday, Christmas, anniversary or valentine's cards when you can make one especially for your loved one. Draw a picture of you together, find your favourite photo(s) of each other or Google a romantic scene. Personalise it with a heartfelt message and try to include their name on it somewhere, so that they knows its been designed just for them. Again, the more hearts the better. Get out your red sharpies and your pink colouring pencils!
These are some of the basics. I have many more simple romantic ideas to share with you. The more you can tie in an idea with your partners life or personality the more effective it will be. I will eventually delve into more creative and unusual romantic ideas, but lets master the easy ones first...
BE romantic!

This is an article by  Patrick Filewood

Achieving result in any relationship involves applying this tips and truly following this steps would make your love life an example for others

Tuesday, February 16, 2010

The Only Solution For Every Relationship Problem Is Passion

In every relationship, there is bound to be some form of misunderstanding, but to every problem there is always a solution, if only we would look inward and be ready to apply the solution. Being in love, will most of the time make us to find ourselves either offending our partner or we have been offended, every love affair, will once in awhile grow cold, the infatuation may sometimes reduce, our passion will decrease and our desire or obsession will sometimes decline.
Passion is what makes us want to live our life together with somebody that we fell in love; passion is what makes us see some qualities in our boyfriend, girlfriend, husband or wife and decide that we want to live the rest of our life together, but sometimes this same passion becomes reduce to the extent that a small decision not taking in your favour create a great argument and we begin to create a wall around our heart, things or decision that we can easily compromise on in the past, we now decide to take our stand and by so doing creating some problems in our relationship.
Solving relationship problem does not have a textbook that we can read and apply the solution given like we do when solving mathematical problems, most of the time the steps others took to solve a similar problem may actually work in the opposite direction for you, the solution given might create more problems in your own relationship. But there is one solution to every relationship problem, it has been tested, it has worked for ages, it is proven to work for your own love-life and is so simple to apply in any relationship, it is put enough passion in your relationship.
Having enough passion in a relationship will make big problems in a relationship almost fix themselves but a relationship that lacks passion will almost come to an end because of a small problem that would look like a mountain. If a relationship has enough passion, a small emotionally charged date will much more heal a relationship than having a long talk about relationship problem where there is no passion; even meeting with a marriage counselor with a lot of experience will not produce any result if there is no passion in a relationship.
We will fix a relationship or win an ex back faster, if we can all focus on increasing the passion and connection in our relationship than focusing on the problems we have in our relationship. Passion is all that is needed to make your relationship work better, the interesting is that, it is so easy to increase the passion in our love life, just let your boyfriend, girlfriend, husband or wife become your obsession, let their desire become your obsession, look for ways to make them appreciate your presence, satisfy their longings, let him or her know they are important to your existence, do things that would make them look important, never abandon their emotion and before you know it, a bond of strong enthusiasm or fondness is going to be formed, the both of you will become inseparable.

Sunday, January 31, 2010

A Tricky Thing My Girlfriend Did...By Akin Iroko

Having a girlfriend or boyfriend or call it like the average person down the street would call it "a lover" is so much FUN and very exciting but keeping agirlfriend or lover is something but I think I have been kept by my girlfriend and she did a very tricky thing that I have not read anywhere, it was so wonderful new that I am putting it on this blog and I think it is something that we can ALL DO DURING THIS VALENTINE SEASON...

I know the question on your mind would be what did person do that is worth been writing online and if it so tricky won't it kill the passion in my relationship, I can bet it would do the exact opposite and at the end of the day you would be the happier for it...


She wrote a profile on me and added some beautiful, yet unnoticed thing about her boyfriend...
I know another question has been raised on your mind, what is profile writing and how can I do it...
What my girlfriend did has not been done by anybody that I know and I have not even read it online yet and even my title of what she did is personal, that was the BEST I could come up with!!!

In simple English, she wrote a book on me and she gave it to me, when I was traveling, this how she started the profile writing...
(1) She wrote about her desire, starting from when she was a baby and strategically put me in the whole story of her life, that is making me feel important and A BIG PART OF HER CREATION.
(2)She wrote about how we met, did she miss the part of me trying to get her to say yes? NO.
She even added the part that I can't seem to know when I did them...damn it the profile was good!!!
(3)She then told me about her love for me and how she wished I was not going anywhere, so that we can just be together...that part was so uplifting that I wished I could cancelled my trip.
And then finally, she wrote about our future together, if I tell that part made me see her in my arms in my "future's eyes"
So what I am simply telling you is express your love in writing and your relationship would be BETTER OFF!!!