Showing posts with label passion. Show all posts
Showing posts with label passion. Show all posts

Tuesday, February 16, 2010

The Only Solution For Every Relationship Problem Is Passion

In every relationship, there is bound to be some form of misunderstanding, but to every problem there is always a solution, if only we would look inward and be ready to apply the solution. Being in love, will most of the time make us to find ourselves either offending our partner or we have been offended, every love affair, will once in awhile grow cold, the infatuation may sometimes reduce, our passion will decrease and our desire or obsession will sometimes decline.
Passion is what makes us want to live our life together with somebody that we fell in love; passion is what makes us see some qualities in our boyfriend, girlfriend, husband or wife and decide that we want to live the rest of our life together, but sometimes this same passion becomes reduce to the extent that a small decision not taking in your favour create a great argument and we begin to create a wall around our heart, things or decision that we can easily compromise on in the past, we now decide to take our stand and by so doing creating some problems in our relationship.
Solving relationship problem does not have a textbook that we can read and apply the solution given like we do when solving mathematical problems, most of the time the steps others took to solve a similar problem may actually work in the opposite direction for you, the solution given might create more problems in your own relationship. But there is one solution to every relationship problem, it has been tested, it has worked for ages, it is proven to work for your own love-life and is so simple to apply in any relationship, it is put enough passion in your relationship.
Having enough passion in a relationship will make big problems in a relationship almost fix themselves but a relationship that lacks passion will almost come to an end because of a small problem that would look like a mountain. If a relationship has enough passion, a small emotionally charged date will much more heal a relationship than having a long talk about relationship problem where there is no passion; even meeting with a marriage counselor with a lot of experience will not produce any result if there is no passion in a relationship.
We will fix a relationship or win an ex back faster, if we can all focus on increasing the passion and connection in our relationship than focusing on the problems we have in our relationship. Passion is all that is needed to make your relationship work better, the interesting is that, it is so easy to increase the passion in our love life, just let your boyfriend, girlfriend, husband or wife become your obsession, let their desire become your obsession, look for ways to make them appreciate your presence, satisfy their longings, let him or her know they are important to your existence, do things that would make them look important, never abandon their emotion and before you know it, a bond of strong enthusiasm or fondness is going to be formed, the both of you will become inseparable.

Sunday, January 31, 2010

A Tricky Thing My Girlfriend Did...By Akin Iroko

Having a girlfriend or boyfriend or call it like the average person down the street would call it "a lover" is so much FUN and very exciting but keeping agirlfriend or lover is something but I think I have been kept by my girlfriend and she did a very tricky thing that I have not read anywhere, it was so wonderful new that I am putting it on this blog and I think it is something that we can ALL DO DURING THIS VALENTINE SEASON...


I know the question on your mind would be what did person do that is worth been writing online and if it so tricky won't it kill the passion in my relationship, I can bet it would do the exact opposite and at the end of the day you would be the happier for it...


HERE IS WHAT SHE DID...


She wrote a profile on me and added some beautiful, yet unnoticed thing about her boyfriend...
I know another question has been raised on your mind, what is profile writing and how can I do it...
What my girlfriend did has not been done by anybody that I know and I have not even read it online yet and even my title of what she did is personal, that was the BEST I could come up with!!!


In simple English, she wrote a book on me and she gave it to me, when I was traveling, this how she started the profile writing...
(1) She wrote about her desire, starting from when she was a baby and strategically put me in the whole story of her life, that is making me feel important and A BIG PART OF HER CREATION.
(2)She wrote about how we met, did she miss the part of me trying to get her to say yes? NO.
She even added the part that I can't seem to know when I did them...damn it the profile was good!!!
(3)She then told me about her love for me and how she wished I was not going anywhere, so that we can just be together...that part was so uplifting that I wished I could cancelled my trip.
And then finally, she wrote about our future together, if I tell that part made me see her in my arms in my "future's eyes"
So what I am simply telling you is express your love in writing and your relationship would be BETTER OFF!!!